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Stop asking people how your design looks

Apr 3, 2025

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1 min read

They’re not your user. They don’t care.

You ask, “what do you think of the design?”

They say, “Looks clean.” or “How about this feature or color?”

I made this mistake too. (I still do. that’s why I’m writing this.)

You don’t need feedback. You need signals.

Now I:

  • Watch real people use it. (Mixpanel, Hotjar, etc.)
  • See where they pause.
  • See what they ignore. (Educate them or remove it.)
  • See where they quit.

That’s your feedback. It took me a while to learn this. I still ask for feedback. But I’m learning to ask the right questions.

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